A woman has gone viral online after sharing a blunt message a friend of hers wrote about not putting up with 'sh*tty' husbands.
The response from people online has been huge, the post has been shared thousands of times with some people saying it was 'exactly what they needed.'
"Whoever wrote this is amazing. Couldn’t have said it better if I tried!" one wrote.
Here's what the woman said in her post...
"On every page I follow, in every parent group I am in, I see the same thing: mothers talking about how exhausted by the imbalance of work in their relationships.
The advice is always the same: Be gentle with yourself. You can't do it all. Parenthood is hard. Blah blah blah.
I don't know which of you needs to hear this, but I'll give you some better advice: Divorce his ass.
Men are not innately incompetent or lazy or incapable of doing their fair share. Tell that jackass to get off the golf course, get his ass home, get up in the middle of the night with the baby, and start earning the right to stay married.
And remind him that not all men are this way, and that a dude who doesn't do his fair share is not exactly a prize. He is replaceable. Lazy men who think you should have to work 168 hours a week while they work 40 are easy to find.
If my spouse can pull his weight while litigating police and prison death cases and dealing with the unending horror of our current legal system, then your Johnny Do Nothing husband can manage to get up with the damn baby.
If he gets free time and you don't, if he gets to sleep and you don't, if you have to do the grunt work and he doesn't, guess what. It's not an accident. He knows exactly what he is doing.
Stop making excuses for shitty men."
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